What Do Dana Torres and Your Fat Loss Goals Have in Common?

The Olympics are long over but yet we're still seeingpeople or a support mechanism that will support you?
Michael Phelps commercials (and I'm sure we willSo many people come to me about fat loss, but
continue to for years to come). One of the bestthey don't have a clear goal in mind other than
things about the Olympics, at least in my opinion, isperhaps a number on the scale and even that is
the number of inspirational stories that revolveoften unclear. And they almost never want it as
around this amazing gathering of world class athletes.badly as they want air.
The stage itself, a battle of the WORLD's best, beingHow motivated are you to achieve your fat loss
watched by practically the entire planet, isgoals? Do you want it as badly as you do your next
mind-staggering. Not everyone can be Michael Phelps.breath of air? Are you motivated enough to lose fat
However with the right work ethic, desire, motivationthat you are willing to eat healthier? Are you
and will power, we can all strive to be our best inmotivated enough to lose fat that you are willing to
whatever goals we choose to pursue.eat less? Are you motivated to lose fat enough that
So although the Olympics are old news, I'd like toyou are willing to exercise?
revisit the topic, because quite frankly, it's a sourceIf you really want to lose fat, then create a plan for
of inspiration and motivation for me. Specifically, Darayourself with clear and compelling reasons to
Torres, my favorite Olympian. Yes, Michael Phelpsmotivate you to reach your goal. Visit this plan often
won eight gold medals, but for pure inspiration, Iand make sure that nothing or no one gets in the
absolutely LOVE Dara's story.way of your success. Post pictures of where you
Just to provide you with a quick reminder of whoWANT to be, what you WANT to look like
Dara was, this was her 5th Olympics and she is 41somewhere where you can see them everyday.
years old AND a mom!Want your fat loss goal as badly as you want air!
She was already the oldest swimming gold medallistWith the proper motivation, ANY goal is possible. You
and also the oldest American swimmer to qualify forjust need to want it bad enough. Here are some tips
the Olympics and the first to make five teams. So Ito help:
think this throws the "I'm too old" and "I'm too busy"1. Have a clear and well defined goal.
and "I have no time because of the kids" excusesYou can hit almost any target if you define it and put
right out the window.a time line on it. WHAT do you want and WHEN is it
Excuses are a dime a dozen and people have many,going to be done?
many reasons for not exercising. If you're not2. Have a detailed action plan with small milestones
exercising, why not?along the way.
The American Council on exercise posed this questionWHAT are you going to do? WHAT are the action
in an informal survey on its web site. "I'm too out ofsteps? "Baby-steps" are always easier and more fun
shape to work out" responded 19 percent. "I don'tthan "giant leaps." It's relatively hard to stay
know what to do at the gym" said 21 percent of themotivated over the years to put a million dollars in
respondents. "Gyms are too crowded", said 46the bank, but it's easy to start saving $500 this
percent. "People at the gym are too rude", said 11month. Have a clear, doable and actionable plan. Then,
percent. "I don't know what questions to ask once Itake one step after another.
get there", said the remaining 3 percent.3. Surround yourself with positives.
Based on my personal experience, the biggestDaily motivation is key to success. You've got to
reasons people don't exercise or stop exercising, isread, listen to, watch and talk with exciting and
because they're not motivated and there is no oneknowledgeable people that will not only energize you
to hold them accountable or help them staybut provide you with the knowledge and support you
motivated. Over the long term, most people fail atneed. We live in a "bad news world." It wears
holding themselves accountable and most people faileveryone down!
to stay motivated.I would also add to put down the paper, turn off the
My favorite Olympian, Dara Torres has a coach.TV and surround yourself with positive input that
Someone is holding her accountable. Someone isenergizes you!
helping to motivate her, and there's nothing wrong4. Begin the day right.
with that. Even for an Olympian.Recommit to your most important priorities, goals
Of course she knows what to do on her won, she'sand plans every single day. Personally, I begin every
been an Olympian for two decades. So why doesmorning with a 15 minute workout then focus on my
she need a coach? Accountability. Motivation.major priorities. If I don't do these things first thing in
There's a wonderful story about a young man whothe morning, chances are I won't do them at all. Start
wanted an interview with a famous guru. When theyevery day by reviewing and re-affirming your most
met, the man asked, "How can I find wisdom?"important objectives.
Without a word, the guru led the young man to a5. Have a strong support system.
nearby lake and pushed his head under water. AfterI think this may be the most important, easiest, and
the man thrashed and fought for a moment, themost often overlooked. Recruit friends and family to
guru let him up, where he immediately gasped for air.hold you accountable. Teach them to support and
The guru then said, "When you desire wisdom asencourage you. Pick their brains for good ideas, and
badly as you wanted that breath of air, you'll find it."report back to them regularly. Join a community of
Do you have a clear and compelling weight loss or fatlike minded people, with similar goals.
loss goal? Have you developed your weight loss orWith a strong support system, whether online or
fat loss action plan? Have you created a system orwith a group of friends and family, you can
environment that will support you in your goals? Doaccomplish anything.
you focus each day on your goal? Do you have