Muslim Brides - Prewedding Rituals

In the Muslim wedding tradition, the Muslim brides arewedding tradition must not look at the groom till the
given much importance as the Muslim grooms. It iswedding is over. After that she has to immediately
the bride's family that takes the first step towardsgo to the groom's new house, where everything will
the groom's side to fix the marriage. There will be abe ready for her to start her new life. Till then she
lot of ceremonies in the bride's home. First the bride'swill be guarded by her parents or her guardians.
family sends a lot of fruits as well as sweets to theThe Muslim brides are entitled to receive dowry on
groom's house once the marriage is fixed. Next theythe day of the nikah or the social contract. They
start the preparations of the wedding. As themay ask for anything from the bridegroom, and she
wedding is a very important event in the life ofwill also get it. She may receive property, gold or any
Muslims, a lot of care is taken to make the bride lookother items as dowry. This she is allowed to keep
good.and it will become her own even after the marriage.
A lot of money is spent in designing the Muslim bridesIf she wishes to she can maintain her maiden name,
dress for the wedding. They will mostly wear brightit is not compulsory for her to take the name of her
red colored clothes in the Muslim customs, and theyhusband after the marriage. The brides of the Muslim
will also wear a lot of gold jewellery. The dresses willcommunity are requested to dress very modestly.
also be full of gold and silver threads to make theThey have to dress modestly when they are
brides look very rich on the day of the wedding.meeting the groom before the marriage, and in the
Once the marriage is fixed, and the date is fixed thepresence of her parents. She must also dress
brides must not go out of the homes. They must bemodestly on the day of her wedding. There has been
kept company by the ladies in the household as wella lot of criticism about the Muslim brides wearing
as her friends. During this time they will beautify hervery Westernized clothes for the wedding. She must
for the wedding day.be dressed in a way that none of her body parts are
They use a lot of turmeric paste a few days beforeshown. She must also dress in a way that she will
the wedding day on the skin of the Muslim brides' tonot attract the attention of the other men in the
make them fair. The bride's family will also arrange anroom. She must also not indulge in Western practices
engagement ceremony for the Muslim groom andduring the wedding like kissing visitors.
bride to exchange rings. The bride in the Muslim