Indian Wedding Traditions

The Hindu religion comes from across a number of- Holy mantras are chanted and the bride's parents
regions, each with cultural variations to weddingpledge their blessings. It symbolizes them givining their
ceremonies. There are, however, fundamentaldaughter away.
similarities in all Hindu weddings.Kanya-agaman
The purpose of the Hindu wedding is to perform the- the bride enterers, usually led by a maternal uncle
dharma, obligations to society and family, prajana,to the mandap. The groom is shielded and is unable
which is to bring children into the world and shradhto see his bride until he expresses his acceptance of
which refers to the rituals.her to the pundit. The couple then sit together with
Misri for Indian Weddingthe groom on the left.
Also known as the sugar ceremony, this is anPad-Pakshalan
engagement ceremony in which the blessings of Lord- The brides parents wash the feet of the couple
Ganesha are prayed for. Seven married womenwith milk and water and then connect the couple
represent the seven forms of God and maketogether with a length of raw cotton and threads.
Ganesha symbol on a pot of sugar. The GaneshaThis is later tied together by the pundit to reinforce
symbol looks similar to a swastika, but in a clockwisetheir bond as husband and wife.
direction.Hasta-melap
Prayer known as a puja is carried out by the couple- the brides right hand is placed in the grooms right
and their parents to complete the request forhand as traditionally the brides parents are giving her
blessings.away to the groom.
The families of the bride and the groom exchangeAgni Puja
garlands of flowers, rings, fruit and gifts. As the- a sacred fire is lit by the pundit in a copper bowl
fourth finger is considered to have a direct link to theShilarohana
heart, the rings are placed on these fingers. These- the bride puts her foot on a stone to correspond
are placed on the right hand of the groom and thewith the vows they take to be strong as a couple
left hand of the bride.throughout married life.
Indian Wedding SangeetLaja homa
This is a pre wedding party with food and music for- rice is placed in the sacred fire while the bride prays
friends and family. The bride and groom may havefor her husband to have a long life, prosper and to
individual sangeets or a combined large celebration.be happy.
Nav Graha Puja for WeddingMangalfera
This is a puja which takes place days before the- the couple walk around the fire four times. The
wedding to ask for blessings from the Gods whichgroom will lead the bride three times to represent
govern the planets. This is considered important asduty, karma and wealth, and the bride will lead the
astrology has been an important influence throughoutround representing salvation.
the history of the Hindu religion.Saptapadi
Wedding Sagri- these are the seven symbolic steps the couple will
This is a ceremony for the females from the groomswalk around the fire to remain life-long partners and
family to get to know the bride by visiting her withfriends. Oaths are taken in the presence of the
gifts.guests to unite the couple as husband and wife.
Wedding MehndiPradakshina
This is the henna party where the bride and some of- the couple circle the fire three more times with a
the guests have their hands and feet painted withfurther prayer.
henna paste. The henna stains the hands with theSaubhagya Chinha
patterns which are painted on and is considered lucky- the bride is blessed by the groom by him placing
and an illustration of the strength of love in thevermilion powder on her forehead and giving her a
imminent marriage.wedding necklace known as a Mangal Sutra.
Ghari Puja for WeddingHaridaya-Sparsha
This is a religious ceremony which takes place the- the couple place their hands over each others
night before the wedding in the bride and groom'shearts while stating vows. They are then blessed by
home. The ceremony represents the couple leavingthe pundit to complete the wedding ceremony.
their old life and embarking on their new life together.Chathurthi Karma
The Pithi is usually performed at this point, which is aThe couple feed each other four times to represent
beautification ritual. The bride and groom are washedthe development of their skin, muscle, bone and soul.
with a tumeric paste.Blessed flower petals and rice are thrown over the
Wedding Bharaatcouple by guests at the end of the ceremony like
On the morning of the wedding, the groom leaves hisconfetti. As the couple leaves the farewell to the
home for the wedding traditionally mounted on abride is a moving moment as she is leaving her family
white horse with his family and friends around him.to build a new life with her husband and his family.
When they arrive, they are greeted by the bridesA coconut is positioned under a wheel of the
family who shower them with rose water and petals.wedding car, so it can be broken on its departure.
Wedding SwagatumThis was done in the past to ensure the vehicle
To welcome the goom to the wedding, the motherwhich was transporting the newlyweds was
places a red dot, known as a tikka, on his forehead.roadworthy.
A pot filled with yogurt, honey, seeds and ghee isThere are post wedding ceremonies which take place
placed on the ground for the groom to step on into welcome the bride into the family. Salt is used in
order to close the ceremony.the ritual of Datar to symbolize her entering the
The actual wedding ceremony itself takes place in afamily as it can blend well into any food.
mandap, a canopy, with a sacred fire burning inside it.Hindu brides customarily wear heavily embroidered
A series of rituals to signify the union of the couple,red and white saris. The red implies fertility and the
complete the wedding ceremony.white the innocence and purity of the bride. It is
Madhuparkacommon for the bride to change during the wedding
- the groom's right foot is washed by the father offrom a modest sari from her family to a more heavy
the bride.sari from the groom's family.
Sankalp