Relationship before Function

As many are aware, I'm quite an advocate for theNOW, at this moment in time, and that He wanted
growing house church "movement" and love helpingan intimate relationship with me. I remember thinking
others to establish churches in their homes, coffeeHe was mad at me and, when I REALLY messed up,
shops, office breakrooms, etc. I'm having a ball doingI was that much farther away from Him than I had
this and it's VERY rewarding. I was recently lookingbeen. Regardless, I still worshipped Him, too scared
at Luke Chapter 10 verses 1-9 and there are someto do otherwise.Sadly, there are millions like that! The
principles found there that will not only proveharvest is abundant, as Jesus said. Multitudes need to
beneficial to the "house churchers" among us, butknow that God is not "out there" but wants to live
ANY Christian whose heart is set on advancing thelarge "IN THEM," for WE are the temple of the Holy
Kingdom of God.Let's take a look at the AmplifiedSpirit, that same Spirit that raised Jesus from the
version. Here it is:1...the Lord chose and appointeddead.Verses 7 and 8: They were told to "...stay on in
seventy others and sent them out ahead of Him,the same house, eating and drinking what they
two by two, into every town and place where Heprovide, for the laborer is worthy of his wages. Do
Himself was about to come (visit).2And He [Jesus]not keep moving from house to house. Whenever
said to them, The harvest indeed is abundant [thereyou go into a town and they receive and accept and
is much ripe grain], but the farmhands are few. Praywelcome you, eat what is set before you..." Stay
therefore the Lord of the harvest to send outwith them? Imagine it's Tom's first day at work and
laborers into His harvest.3Go your way; behold, Ia fellow named Jerry comes by and invites him to
send you out like lambs into the midst ofjoin the gang at the local bar to have a TGIF
wolves.4Carry no purse, no provisions bag, nocelebration. A Christian, Tom hardens his brow and
[change of] sandals; refrain from [retarding yoursays to Jerry, "No, thank you, I'm a Christian and I
journey by] saluting and wishing anyone well alongdon't go to places like that." What happened? Tom
the way.5Whatever house you enter, first say,hasn't merely turned down Jerry's invitation; he's
Peace be to this household! [Freedom from all theturned Jerry down, turned him off and turned him
distresses that result from sin be with thisaway in the process.How much more effective would
family].6And if anyone [worthy] of peace andit have been had Tom RECEIVED Jerry's hospitality -
blessedness is there, the peace and blessedness youthe only kind he knew how to offer, by the way. He
wish shall come upon him; but if not, it shall comewas being KIND to Tom - a godly quality - and may
back to you.7And stay on in the same house, eatingwell be a worshipper of God, the best he knew how
and drinking what they provide, for the laborer isat any rate. He was extending his hand of friendship
worthy of his wages. Do not keep moving fromand inviting Tom into his world to meet his friends,
house to house.8Whenever you go into a town andmaybe even family at some point. "Come and eat
they receive and accept and welcome you, eat whatand drink with us, TOM!" was what he was saying.
is set before you;9And heal the sick in it and say toBut Tom said, "No!" A door had been shut by Tom's
them, The kingdom of God has come close toreaction, when Jerry had graciously opened his
you.Known for his ministry as a House Church planter,culture to him.Remember verse one? JESUS is
author and speaker Tony Dale emphasizes the factplanning to show up but He's sending out His team
that House Church is NOT merely a gathering orFIRST.Guys like Tom.Guys like us.He allowed Tom to
even a location; it's a way of life. As he says, therehave that job, not merely so he could eat or pay
must surely be something more to this thanbills, but as a means for advancing the Kingdom of
exchanging pews for couches. How can it beGod. Jesus WILL show up, but not if Christians go
anything else for Christianity is not merely another ofspringing religion and self-righteousness on everyone
the world's great religions; it's a moment-to-momentand squelching those Divine opportunities. Granted,
relationship with the Creator. Bearing this in mind, it'sthere are times when we MUST graciously bow out.
more easily conceivable that wherever we ChristiansTime constraints might cause us to say, "Sounds like
find ourselves at any moment, that may well be thefun, but can I take a raincheck?" Leave the door
spot where we can begin to influence people for theopen. Now, if Jerry's gang had been going to a
Kingdom and see lives transformed.Verse 1: We seetopless club, by all means, use discernment. "Jerry, I'd
that Jesus "sent them out ahead of Him." Thatlove to hang out with you guys but I'm not
means they went FIRST but He would soon becomfortable in places like that...can we go somewhere
coming onto the scene. As disciples ourselves, haveelse? How 'bout lunch tomorrow...my treat?" He
you found that to be the case today as well? All wewould probably respect that and, at the very least,
have to be is available!Verse 2: Despite havinginvite you to something more to your liking another
assembled an outreach team of 72 (some say eventime.Verse 8 essentially encourages us to move into
more), Jesus laments that there's so much work toTHEIR environment. Jesus is our example of that.
do and 72 is simply not enough. We need more ofDidn't He leave HIS culture for the sake of planet
us!Verse 3: The team is reminded that they areEarth?A lady asked me if I'd speak at her Brisket,
vulnerable and are about to engage in SpiritualBeer and Bible Study. I didn't hesitate to commit
Warfare. Yet, they were trained. The call to serve ismyself. The people she said she'll be inviting are kids
really a call to prepare. Have you beenwho've done drugs, been in jail, people who don't feel
preparing?Verse 4: They're instructed not to bringaccepted in churches. If like-minded Christians would
anything with them because they won't be staying.join forces in a similar manner, we could have an
They are also told, essentially, not to dilly-dally. Thereincredible impact on our community. (Anybody care
was to be no chit-chatting with others they meetto throw a party?)When you get there - to that
along the way; they were on a mission, after all.place outside your element - love those you find
Instead, they were to keep a look out for someonethere. Let the expression of Christ flow through you.
VERY important. Who? Read on.Verse 5: Jesus toldI once officiated a wedding that was held in a bar.
them something very interesting. He said, "WhateverEveryone, including the groom, was sipping beer
house you enter, first say, Peace be to thisbefore the wedding even began. That was the most
household!" Today, He might have said, "When youenjoyable wedding I can remember. I mingled and
go to the office, the plant, Starbuck's, class, a"worked the crowd." Afterward, I sat down and ate
Chamber of Commerce mixer, BE to them thewith an Hispanic man about my age, with a shaved
expression of God that you are and let themhead and a 2-foot braided pony tail hanging down his
experience the Peace of Christ through you. If youback. We enjoyed each other's company, laughed
feel that same peace returned to you by another,quite a bit as I recall. I told him how to reach me and
THIS is the person you can build a church withmade myself available. Another man asked me if I
(minister to, pray for, etc.)!" Here's a tip: Instead ofmade a pretty good living doing weddings. When I
inviting these people to church - asking them totold him that I don't charge, he grabbed a $50 bill
abandon THEIR culture in exchange for YOURfrom his wallet and said, "Here ya go, I need a
church's friendly confines - why not get to knowblessing and I believe in reapin' and sowin'." The next
THEM in THEIR world? Chances are, they'll gladlyday, the bride came by my office and gleefully said
invite family and friends to meet you and..."everyone just loved you at the wedding."Verse 9:
POOF...instant Church! I heard about an East IndianJesus says, "heal the sick in it and say to them, the
Christian woman who was walking around a village,Kingdom of God has come close to you..." Be
praying. When someone asked what she was doing,discerning and see if there's a need where God could
she said she was looking for people to pray for. Shestep in. As I minister in nursing homes and when I've
was invited in by many. Eventually, she established 50gone to jails and hospitals, I've NEVER had a single
house churches, that in a nation with millions of godsperson say they did NOT want me to pray for them.
(note the lower case "g").Verse 6: Jesus added, "AndWhat I HAVE heard is people who say, "I don't know
if anyone of peace and blessedness is there, thehow to pray." I've even seen people cry while I
peace and blessedness you wish shall come uponprayed and afterward admit to me that NO ONE has
him..." In other words, if that person is someone youEVER prayed for them.Imagine!Sure, we could offer
can work with, you'll know it by the Spirit! In Actsto literally pray for the sick as we enter into these
16:14, Paul was preaching by the river and one whostrange cultures, but how about those with sick
was listening was a woman named Lydia. The versemarriages or sick finances, sick emotions, a sick spirit,
says, "She was [already] a worshiper of God, and thesick of being unemployed, or just sick of being
Lord opened her heart to pay attention to what wasaddicted and failing all the time? The verse says to
said by Paul." No, she wasn't a Christian - and shetell them about the Kingdom of God. It doesn't tell us
may have not yet even heard the story of Jesusto tell them they're sinners. They already know that,
and His Kingdom message. Yet, she was referred toI assure you. Tell them there's a King who loves
as "a worshipper of God." She could have been athem and cares about them. The woman at the well
Muslim, a Satanist, a New Age guru, a Buddhist...sheis a grand example of that. Jesus said to her, "Does
was probably not a Jew because it was the Sabbathanyone condemn you? Neither do I." He's been called
and she was not in the temple AND she was workinga Friend of Sinners, more comfortable with the down
besides. Scripture clearly says, however, says sheand outers than with the religious crowd. He loved
was a worshipper of God and a Church was startedthem and they loved Him; the self righteous got His
at her house.I'm convinced that the Lord's primaryindignation.We can always find a way to bless and
method of evangelism was probably not open-airgive hope. People are too often being cursed by the
crusades. Yes, we have a few examples of that, butChurch, condemned and reminded of how bad they
I think there were far more one-on-one situations -are. "You're a sinner, bud." We forget that, if not for
the kind of opportunities constantly available to youGod's grace, so are we. Just as God said to Adam,
and me today as well. ALL Christians can penetrate"Who told you that you were naked?", I can hear
pockets of darkness by crossing over to where weHim asking the Church today, "Who told you that
are no longer "culturally comfortable." We have toyou were divorced, illegitimate, a fornicator, a
get out of our Christian ghetto and rub shouldersdrunkard...who told you - a child that I love - one I
with others in order to find those "worshippers ofsent My Son to die for...that you were the scum of
God." They're out there, trust me.Personally, therethe Earth? I call you My friend, My child, My warrior,
was a time in my life when I was quite a devoutmy priest, my chosen one. Who told you all those lies
"worshipper of God." Christian girls often mistook meabout yourself?"Let us remember to DEMONSTRATE
for one of "them." Sadly, the "god" to whom I paidthe presence of God before our preaching will ever
my homage was named "Mike." It was ME all along. Ibe received. Spurgeon said, "Before you give a man
KNEW there was a GOD "out there" but all I sawa tract, wrap it in a sandwich." The same principle
around me was Religion - not relationship - andapplies. It's called "Relationship before Function." They
condemnation. Trying to "be good" seemedwant to know how much you care before they care
impossible for me to do no matter how hard I tried.how much you know. As God intervenes, your
Sure, I heard the old Bible stories, but I wasn'ttestimony, your ministry will be more than welcome.
meeting anyone who testified of what He was doing